Thursday, 4 July 2013

what a difference

Sometimes it make me so sad the difference in the living of people around the globe. The difference in living style, the difference in opportunities, the difference in social attitudes, the difference in mentality, the difference in rules and regulations for people, the difference & division of  people in many classes and the difference and mindset for the poor and rich.

I have so many things to mention in this regards but i will just enlighten one thing today. Being an active user of Face Book abroad, when i woke early in the morning i use to check my email and face book account. It always made my morning upset when i see the terrible situation of my country,Pakistan , my beloved nation. As compare to other nations i have only to read about the bomb blasts, firing, rape, dirty politics and devaluation of the morals.While at the other hand I have soft and nice information to read about Korea, Japan, China, US, Canada, Germany and many other countries. Every second day i have an invitation about new tourist attractions, development, peace, care and love everywhere.

It always made me think what are the realities behind this difference?? We are the  people with great historical background.we are the people with true believes,a true religion and we are the followers of true prophet of Allah, Hazrat Muhammad (S.A.W). But, then why we are struggling in our lives? why we are surrounded by terrorism? why we are killing each others? why we have the most tension in our society when our religion believes in peace and love, why are we creating haters among us?

The youth of my nation is doing politics. Every one one of us is so attached to the politics that we can speak on politics even for hours and the most tragic thing is that we don't want to accept our opponents view even if they are right. we just want to prove ourselves right. It reminds me 06 months before today, the elections of Korea. I was surprised to see there was no participation from the youth to favor any political group or party. I asked many of my Korean friends , who they are supporting for the election and  who they are gonna vote for. Most of they said , its secret and prohibited to disclose. Some of them replied, we will vote for this candidate because they did this and that for my country... Look.... what a surprising response. Isn't it??? It really give me pain when i see my youth creating haters and pulling the legs of one another on FB and in true life, presenting their political leaders ,"The Heroes" and about the rest they think they are just not patriotic nor they deserve to be the leaders of nation.  

We as a nation don't respect each others opinion. We don't believe each other in the common matters of  life. we don't speak the truth even in religious matters, we try to get every thing what we wish, no matters we deserve it or not. We are not honest with our people, our nation, our country and even not with ourselves.
we don't want to perform our duties as individuals rather we like to interrupt other persons issues.
we want to bring change in our society but we are not ready to start it from ourselves, rather we want to change others.

I think all these differences are quite strong to keep us away form being united and work as a nation. I don't know till when it will continue what i know is that we need to stay for a while and think where is the problem and we need to tackle the problem , because we can only solve our problems. No body else will do it for us.
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1 comment:

  1. Fakhar, the article truly reflects your sincerity and dreams for Pakistan. The social, ethical and personal weaknesses of our nation that you mentioned certainly play a vital role in the downfall of our society but these are the effects not the causes. The major problem is political and administrative infrastructure. Once we improve our administrative set up, I am sure we will overcome the social drawbacks. It is said that the ethics of a society are directly related to the peace. When your are in war, you encounter such problems as you have stated. Pashtuns were one of the most hospitable races but today no one will believe it after visiting Afghanistan.So my point is we need to address the core issues first and then we will prompt as a prosperous and civilized nation.

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